About Carrying the Family Line...

Now, what about baby can a grown gay man like me has to talk about. Well, even thou i can't give birth (thank god for that!) i still can have a family right? My little niece has arrived... and those cute eyes are so adorable *swoon*.

My two siblings are already married and have successfully given birth... so very soon i would be bearing the blunt of the questions, "So... When's your turn?"

There's this saying in Chinese,
“不孝有三，无后为大”

So, The question now would be,
1) Do i care about the feelings of my parents?
2) Can i withstand the looks of the society?
3) Would i be able to overcome the agony of traditional thinking?
4) Should i carry on being who i am?

I guess this would be what most of the Chinese gay adults has to go through。

I often quote my mum's phrase in life,
“养儿育女，长优一百”

But i know she's only saying it because she cares... Sigh, all this thinking is making me go round and round...